tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1967770251480105759.post8159599013180415869..comments2014-03-13T22:14:21.720+00:00Comments on Random Musings of a Random Life: That Old Adoption Malarky..Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07340304987781700128noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1967770251480105759.post-27212665160731506482012-05-27T11:27:13.351+01:002012-05-27T11:27:13.351+01:00Suzan???? Dear God... It's been YEARS woman.. ...Suzan???? Dear God... It's been YEARS woman.. Now I see you're on FB I am going to find you so FAST!!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07340304987781700128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1967770251480105759.post-33842313103367165132012-05-26T21:39:57.528+01:002012-05-26T21:39:57.528+01:00I suggest you read Jeanette Winterson's book, ...I suggest you read Jeanette Winterson's book, 'Why be Happy when you could be Normal?' She meets her birth mother, and has lots of conflicting emotions about it... might be enlightening and is a good read in any case.Schizophrenia at the Schoolgatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03839755338912448705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1967770251480105759.post-14869383325845370742012-05-26T00:56:42.719+01:002012-05-26T00:56:42.719+01:00I don't think you have anything to lose. You ...I don't think you have anything to lose. You are secure in the knowledge your Mum was the one who raised you early on and loved you. Now you have the opportunity to potentially find out the story behind the reason you were put up for adoption - satisfying curiosity. No recriminations, just understanding. And who knows - you may get to meet a lovely lady who now has her life together and form a friendship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1967770251480105759.post-44149693355571160852012-05-23T19:21:27.136+01:002012-05-23T19:21:27.136+01:00Being one who was found by a sister I didn't k...Being one who was found by a sister I didn't know existed - I've heard her story and she never settled until she knew where she came from. Lots of mixed emotions on all sides, but I'm loving knowing her and wish I'd had her forever. On her side - if she hadn't found us, she would always have wondered. You can walk away if you don't like what you find - but that has to be better than not knowing?susanwgalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00168255109013523415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1967770251480105759.post-43616694086270015032012-05-23T18:19:03.909+01:002012-05-23T18:19:03.909+01:00Bloody hell what a choice. If it helps I'm tor...Bloody hell what a choice. If it helps I'm torn in another way. Dirty family secret is I have a half brother out there somewhere but I have no details, at all, other than one of the parents but no DOB or anything and I am banned from investigating by said parent.<br /><br />Now part of me doesnt care, he isn't and hasn't been part of my family but in the next breath his shadow has loomed over us all our whole lives (we only found out a few years back) and therefore I'd like to know who he is...<br /><br />and then theres the thing, I go digging, upset everyone and even then, does my brother want to know about us?<br /><br />Anyhoo that's a rant that doesn't help one bit so I can give you this, no matter what you do, we;ll all be here to hold your hand and remind you that you are awesome lady xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com